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Training The Male Submissive From A Far

I’ve been asked what it is a Top can do, when attempting to control or mold a gent –from afar. From afar is most successful when the Mistress and submissive have regular, and for some needy boys, daily contact. When one of my callers requests to be interviewed for long term service, if his primary desire isn’t to please and adore his Trainer, he won’t fit my needs and style.

It takes a committed male be controlled by a fussy and Mature Mistress. First and foremost must be eager to Serve and willing to take Orders without incessant and numerous questions. He must depend on Mistress he is cleaving to, and trust that she will honor his Hard Limits and be mindful of the all the possible emotional land minds, that can come up, with any alternate way of life.

Making the time for clear negotiating with options for changes along the way seems to keep most any relationship on track, be either fantasy kink or real life, on the phone or even texting chat, is the most important step in making a good match. Assigning a word or phrase to protect both Top and bottom, in more extreme or untested play, also allows for more freedom when exploring new territory.

Throughout my 20 plus years among sexually charged and very kinky social circles, I have enjoyed the Services of many wonderful males, from many walks of life. My success of taking the cheekiest of boys, and turning them into servants worthy of a Real Life Mistress, has brought a plethora of interesting humans, into my world.

I have also established some small, amusing tasks, or “assignments” for those in my care. Along with a willing houseboy, there can be real and fun Training using cyber communications like Sexy Texting, or e-mail, to keep the juices flowing and a new sub on track. The assignments, given out with great care for the trainee’s home life, job and Family, each is tailor made to either bring a new experience, or a new Lesson that the Mentor believes is important to his new position.

Communication and Control are Powerful tools and both can bring a heady dimension to the Top and bottom. Being available to the newest boy either via phone or IM at the beginning of a new program can save many missteps- which could, unchecked - morph into problems and create back-steps in a houseboy’s Training.

The following are procedures I have developed and still use when I am actively searching for some lovely gent to Train. Even though the male that fits best for me is one who I can mold to become more attractive and skilled for a serious FemDom, and then released – I fully enjoy conversations about my way of life and the many uses of a good sexual servant.

I believe my methods are simple and fun with the focus on what each individual needs to be happiest, for both Top and bottom. A submissive that desires a fuller experience in service to a serious Fem Dom- can look forward to a life filled with details, personal insights and perhaps even an epiphany – that bring out those qualities which have alluded you so far.

Look over the following steps I use when working with both the veteran and the amateur submissive male, and see if it isn’t time for you to take that first step towards a happy life, in harmony with your true nature.

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The Interview
Negotiating The Hard Limits
Safe – Sane - Consensual or RACK
First Assignment
The Notebook
The Rules
The Prime Directive

Second Assignment
Manners
Grooming

Third Assignment

Tributes
The First Meeting

Social Service
Dating a FemDom

Never settle for less – than what you truly need - when choosing a play-toy, servant or life partner.

 

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